i know you think you love love, but love is a lot harder than you think it to be. jump at love, it won’t be love; it’ll be a throw-away. good. get your heart broken. don’t go into it thinking, “this is the one that breaks my heart.” just go into it thinking this is the one i love. you’ll learn. throw yourself at it fully. if the first hit works, great. most likely it won’t. you’ll be better for it. don’t guard your heart until you know better. it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. you’ll probably call bullshit on this after your first heartbreak, as i did, but with maturity comes wisdom. live life.

